You know how people always say "the people who hurt you the most are the people who are closest with you"? From my view, it's very true, and it implies perfectly to families relationships. (especially to mine) Today , well in fact just now my siblings and I had an argument again. Our arguments would always start off with very mean words, but as always we would quickly leave that behind and resume with the daily life. Often than not, when there is another argument, it's still about the same old damn issue. I think my problem is that, every time an argument occurred, I would always think that I'm the only one who's been taken advantage of. I thought I'm the only one whose efforts was always unappreciated, and that I'm the only one who was enduring all their mistreat, like I'm the "Cinderella" or something. But you know what, I was wrong. I just realized we are all suffering from our own insecurities, we just don't show it out obviously, but inside it hurts a lot. And because the ones who are closest to us know our most vulnerable part, sometimes they might be attacking that wound over and over again without realizing. As a matter of fact, now that I try to understand their position, mine really doesn't seem that bad at all.
Ah well, if you could be considerate and caring towards your friends, why can't you do the same to your family right? That being said, don't ever take people's effort for granted too, especially the people closest to you. I guess I shall try to be less self-centered and be more patient with my siblings then.
That's all for now. Bye.
